Save The Marriage System is a 159-page eBook guide that teaches you on how to resuscitate your failing marriage from divorce. Written by Dr. Lee Baucom, a marriage counsellor, you can be assured that this guide will give you the final ray of hope to save your marriage.
Do you wish you could get back with the one you love?
Do you long for another chance to put things right?
Divorce may be on the rise, but it is still a terrible thing for any couple to go through, and could often be avoided by applying a pragmatic and thoughtful approach to where things went wrong.
This is exactly what Dr. Lee Baucom’s Save The Marriage System aims to do. Well respected by couples old and new, this set of eBooks guarantees a way to reconnect in even the coldest of relationship.
Who is Lee Baucom?
A specialist in marriage guidance and therapy, Lee Baucom has helped hundreds of thousands of couples to rediscover their original love by talking things through. Many of the approaches and techniques he has used over the years comprise this guide, which is one of the most popular marriage guidance guides left on the market.
Despite being a practitioner of traditional marriage guidance himself, Lee recognizes that this is not the best solution for all couples.
Why Is The ‘Save The Marriage’ System Controversial?
Baucom says that although effective communication is the key to some relationships, it is not the vital ingredient in all of them. Despite his position as a marriage guidance counsellor, he thinks that often crisis can be avoided in marriage by looking back to the traditional values invested in the union of marriage. As such, this means that looking at problems together and overcoming them is actually more important than most people care to acknowledge.
Lee exposes the truth begin marriage counselling, which is that normally only about 20% of couples have success. He uses a good analogy when he says “If surgery was that risky, it would be outlawed!”
Down to his caring nature, Lee discovered that he didn’t agree with many of the outdated principles taught to marriage counsellors. Out of a genuine care for couples in his care, Lee began to develop strategies that were modern and effective.
What’s Marriage Got To Do With Climate Change?
On the one hand nothing, on the other hand everything! Society today is geared towards fast experiences and throwing things away, as soon as they show fault. In many ways, this can be assimilated to the attitude we have to marriage.
Less of a necessity at all these days, Lee believes that as people see divorce rates rise, they devalue marriage in the first instance. Where we should be mending things that aren’t broken in order to save the planet, so too we should mend marriages in order to repair society.
As such, Lee’s premise could be seen as old fashioned, but what he advocates stands to reason. If there are problems in the marriage, both parties should see them as shared responsibility in order to find a solution.
Rather than negative, Lee advocates the concept of using crisis as part of bonding within a marriage. This might sound odd, but if you speak to any couples who have been in long term marriages, they have usually had some troubles to overcome and it’s working through these together that actually helps to make your relationship stronger than before.
Why is it popular?
Baucom’s Save The Marriage System has gained popularity for three main reasons. We consider the most important one to be its success. Put simply: If you apply each of the principles laid out within its pages, you will stay married to your partner.
Written in a friendly and accessible tone, the program is digital and can therefore be carried around with you to help in times of trouble. This portability makes it one of the easiest to use programs out there today, which is why it is so popular.
Finally, the reason for Lee’s Save The Marriage System seeing such unrivalled success and popularity worldwide is because readers trust in his doctorate. Having studied psychology, everything theorizes throughout the Save the Marriage is linked to years of research and experience undertaken by Lee himself, and other heroes of the science.
This coupled with his honest tone and easy to read manual make this a highly successful and effective program, which has helped thousands of couples all over the world to find meaning in their marriage once more.
Out of control
Save The Marriage System seeks to address the vast number of control issues that can arise in marriages; which he says create struggles in power. These often lead to escalation, which turns small problems into big arguments.
Other relationship guidance approaches focus on shining the light on one golden ticket to redemption, which Lee totally opposes. Actually he prefers to think that there are 8 distinct paths to rediscovering marital bliss, and each one comprises of different strategies for improvement. Something that is vital to one phase may be detrimental at another. Of course, each marriage is different, as is each person within it, which is why Lee’s approach is so healthy. It rejects the ‘one size fits all’ culture.
What does the ‘Save The Marriage’ System include?
As well as receiving the full guide Save the Marriage, Lee has written four pre-modules. Top 5 Things NOT To Do When Your Partner Wants Out is a guide to crisis management and for many people is a good place to start; looking at ways to limit the damage of escalation. Secondly, there is The Quick Start Guide to Saving Your Marriage which acts as a reference guide, offering a sort of liner line on which to place your marriage. This helps you decide which elements of the main manual will benefit you the most.
Table of Contents
The main module is 159 pages long with 18 chapters:
- Why Traditional Couple Therapy Fails
- Moving From You & Me To WE
- Recipe of a Successful Marriage
- Finding The North Star Of your Relationship
- 3 Simple Secrets to a Successful Marriage
- Create an Upward Cycle
- Don’t Ask Yourself Whether You Are Still In Love
- When Emotions Are Amiss
- We All Have A Paradigm
- Boundaries: Where You Begin and End
- The Practices of Marriage
- The Path to Intimacy
- High Mood Relating
- Living a Relationship In the Present
- Sex Is About WE
- Money, Power & WE
- Don’t Just Grow; EVOLVE!
Following completion of the Save the Marriage system’s main module, The Down N Dirty Guide to Saving Your Marriage offers the type of step by step guidance usually exhibited within a marriage guidance counselling session. This encourages you to take a good look at what you want and what role you can play in achieving it.
As a bonus, you will receive 2 more guides, which can also be accessed as audio books. These can then be listened to wherever you re to encourage you. One is a report entitled Rules For Fair Fighting, and the other is called Change of Heart. Both of these bonuses are authored by Paul and Jennifer Thibeault, a couple who came back from the brink of divorce stronger.
Get your hands on the Save the Marriage System today and start working on the path toward reconnection and salvation.